The Power of SEW
What is S.E.W? Sensations-Emotions-Want. When partners are committed to using S.E.W., it immediately puts them back on an even playing field. All conflicts can be worked through from here.
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S.E.W.-ing your way out of power struggle
Here’s the single skill that will end the most difficult of power dynamics: S.E.W. In my post called “Power Dynamics: We know ’em when when we see ’em,” I described how lapsing into instinctive power differences is what behind every relationship conflict. While the magical experience of falling in love is what draws most couples together, the honeymoon ends when …